I finally realize the major components a man has to have in order to be in a successful relationship.
1. A job/ and or seeking an education
2. Money/ (not necessarily baller status but enough to take you on a date)
3. Faith in whatever religion you belong to (mine remains with the LORD)
4. Being faithful/ or at least not dumb enough to get caught!!
5. Security/ meaning your woman needs to feel safe with you
Now these are just a few if I think of more later on trust me I will add them one. Now I love men...my brothers a man....but damn fellas its hard when some of you act the way you do. I understand that shit happens and sometimes you may be jobless. But if that is the case your ass should never be without a job for longer than a month or two, and if you are and you are still smoking weed like a dumbass, what can I say (just shoot yourself). No real man will stand for a woman paying for things all the time. Now ladies that does not mean you can't buy your man a meal every once in a while. Just make damn sure not to make that a habit. If a man is okay with his mom or woman working and paying for everything he is a lame dude and needs to be put to the side. I know women love hard but if the man you are with does not follow the way you worship head could eventually lead you astray from the right path. If a man in not being faithful to you sexually it opens up a world of heart and possible diseases and no man is worth that pain, or the cost of doctor’s visits and medicine. Now ladies please listen and hear me good when I say if you don't feel safe with a man let his ass go. Nothing is worse than being with a man who is on Kevin Hart's level of protecting a woman LOL. This is just how I'm feeling right now...don't worry my next piece will be more upbeat and back to the old Bre I promise.
